Every crossdresser remembers it. Some with pride, some with embarrassment, all with nervousness. Yes I’m talking about the first time you went out in public as a woman, Weeee!!!

Many of you still have not gone out in public crossdressed. Many of you never will, and many have no desire to do so. But for a lot of us that is a goal, that first time we feel we look good enough, have enough confidence in ourselves to dress up and go out as who we really want to be, or at least try it just once.

When I think of my first time, I really think of two different times I went out. One was just going to a friends house for a small party. The other is when I went out to a club. The house party was the first time ever I went outside my house crossdressed.

Yes I was nervous, even though it was friends I was going to be with. Did I look good enough, would anyone say something I was not prepaired for, would someone show up I did not know? Would someone have a problem? All those things flashed through my mind.

I didn’t have to worry thought! They all loved me, took pictures of me, told me how great I looked, it was wonderful! But still, it was not really “out” as in out where no one knew who you are. Not out to a club where lots of people looked at you and knew you were a crossdresser.

The next time I went out was to a very big gay and transgender club here in Orlando. I went with my two lesbian friends, and 4 other friends of theirs. I told them to form a circle around me, I was so scared, lol! Of course I had some beers in me.

When we got there I kept my eyes on my friends, tried to keep busy talking to them so I did not look around and see how others were looking at me. After some quick drinks I relaxed a bit, it was very crowded in there. I was getting noticed; most guys seemed to like what they saw, smiling at me, saying hi.

Of course I saw some talking to each other, pointing at me and laughing. But I expected that, and I was drunk enough not to care! I saw other crossdressers there, of course I looked better than them. (hey this is my blog, I’ll tell it my way!).

So I did a lot of dancing with the girls and had a great time. Of course having the club a very mixed type of place helped. I suppose if it was a more standard bar I would have gotten punched out. So if you have not gone “out” yet, I highly recomend you do. Go to a small friends party first to ease into it. Then when ready try a gay or, if your lucky, transgender club.

Nothing feels as exciting as when your going out dressed and made up as the woman of your dreams! Tell me about your first time, how did it go? What tips would you give a first timer? All I can say is, if going out is what you want to do, go for it!!!!