To butt or not to butt, THAT is the question! Crossdressers go through an awful lot to look like a sexy, curvy woman. Some of us have it easy. Feminine features, nice curves, very little body hair. Then there are,,,, the rest of us. I myself have two things going for me. I have little body hair, and I have a great ass! Even my lady friends say they wish they had my butt. I offer it to them all the time, but I guess that’s not what they mean.

Anyhoooow, it’s safe to say most guys lack in the curves department. Now, I’ve already had a 2 part post about the boobs, so if you want to know about those look them up under cosmetic tips. That leaves the hips and butt. If we could just use our curves in the belly and put them in the hips and butt most of us would be all set!

But we are not cartoon characters, so we can’t. So, how to make ourselves look better in the hips and butt? Even women have that problem, or think they do. Today there are many types and styles of butt pads, underwear and one piece solid clothing to choose from. First, lets talk about the pads.

Pads are just foam, silicon or other padded material. Most are round or oval in shape. In the most simplest form, you just shove them down your underwear, putting them right where you need them. The trouble with this is, they don’t stay where they should without a lot of constant checking. Nothings worse than having a crooked butt! The hip pads are really hard to keep in place.

Then we have special underwear that has pockets built in to hold the removable pads. These are much better as everything stays in place. Some of the pads are hard, more like a shell. Makes sitting on hard chairs better too! Just make sure the foam does not compress and expand too slow. You don’t want to stand up and see your butt take 2 minutes to grow to full size!

Then we have the one piece jobs. They are like fiberglass shells you put on over your underwear. They are not very comfortable and can look strange if you sit, not recommended. You can find all these in most lingerie stores and regular department stores. A lot of the clothing shops in my shopping mall page has them.

Now, if you want to wear slinky, revealing or short dresses then of course these will not work. But, I would hope anyone who wears stuff like that does not need those! I don’t wear any of those helpers, as my butt looks pretty good as is. My hips, well those are pretty straight as most guys are. But most don’t notice cause their looking at my ass! I hope this helps, a lot of crossdressers use the padded underwear, so don’t be afraid to try them out. A girls work is never done!